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{Relevant op-ed piece from the New York Times: Sex, Lies and Photoshop}

“ummm, can you get rid of my double chin?”

After watching  NYT op-ed video “Sex, Lies, and Photoshop”  by Jesse Epstein I thought it important to pass the link along and to share a couple thoughts

The quote for me from the piece is “I dare one magazine just to publish an entire issue without any retouching.”

In the world of photography there are the little white lies and the black lies. Every image that goes through my studio and finds their way into a clients hands has be adjusted in some form, but I wanted to share some of my philosophy behind what I do and what I don’t. My goal as a wedding and event photographer is very different from that of the advertising world or editorial. I believe the reason why people hire me is so that they can create a body for something intangible in hopes that it can live on and be a catalyst for the emotions and feelings they experienced when they look back 10, 20, 70 years from now.

So I have to play a balancing act between what happened and what people perceived as happened. Every bride is beautiful (Im serious) despite weight, complexion, wrinkles, blemish what ever, every bride should perceive themselves as beautiful on their wedding day. In my opinion true beauty comes from within and that is what I try to tap into whenever I work on images after they have been taken. If it is part of who you are and what makes you, you, it stays.

“Umm Mike what happened to my mole?” “Sorry Mr. Lincoln I’ll put it right back.”

If it is something that will keep you from viewing the picture and reliving your day, out it goes. Just ask my brother about the HUGE zit on his forehead when he got married (ha ha sorry Ben couldn’t resist). Like anything in life, we have to exercise moderation. For those that are saying secretly “I don’t care make me barbie”  I would ask you “who, at the core, is your photography for?” It is for that person and that person alone that you should try to satisfy.

For me it is your differences that make you, you and your photography should celebrate that.

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Whew!! Now that, that is done my focus can return

In the spirit of DIY I have historically done all the web design, coding, flash the whole 9 yards. So recently I said enough is enough and just moved forward with a third party web designer. Now my focus can be full throttle on what’s important. so please enjoy the new sites and leave comments or feed back here about any changes you would like to see in the site, things you like or things that could better. The interface to make changes is easy so anything to make it easier to navigate can be done and I can keep recycling in new content to keep it fresh.  -Cheers, Mike

new site

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Wedding Tips – First Look, a new tradition

I recently read a blog of a fellow photographers, Jasmine Star , that was fantastic. It was talking about first-looks. One of the reasons why I liked this blog so much is because it is written by a woman who had a first look for her own wedding.

Men are wonderful creatures and knowledgeable about many of life’s mysteries, but my wife will agree that there are somethings men are just clueless on. So I encourage you to check out Jasmine’s article, plus her photography rocks.

When I talk about first looks in the studio with clients, I get some of the yes head nodding followed by a “No I really want to see my fiancée for the first time when I walk down the aisle.” Which is great and can be just as meaningful but I wanted to write a bit about why I love the first look so much and why you may want to consider it.

For those that don’t know what a first look is, it is a moment taken out of the busy wedding day where the bride and groom see each other for the first time in a private and meaningful manner. When walking down the aisle you may be focused on a number of non groom things. “how do I look” “Dad hurry up” “Dad slow down” “Is there something in my teeth” “Left, right, left, right”
Before you know it you are down the aisle, you say I do, big kiss and back up the aisle “how do I look” “-insert new husbands name- hurry up” “-insert new husbands name- slow down” “Is there something in my teeth” “Left, right, left, right”

When you plan a few minutes prior to the wedding to see your groom for the first time you do a couple positive things:
1) You have a few memorable moments together just the 2 of you away from friends and family  
2) Weddings are made up of little events (or chapters) its these events that you flash back to later on. The ring exchange, cake cutting, saying I do. The more events you can create the more memorable you make the day
3) It can slow the pace down and centers you a bit. In the mad rush of planning and making sure every detail is perfect you can lose track sometimes of what is important until it is gone. The first look is a calm in the storm and a time to just say I love you and see you in a bit.

 

I hate long blogs but here are a couple quick tips to have a successful first look
1) Talk to your wedding crew (photographer, planner, bridal party, officiant etc.)  about it and make sure they know it’s happening so they can alter the sequence of events so it flows seamlessly.
2) Have a pre-arranged spot picked out where the ceremony will take place for it to happen. Make sure it is away from prying eyes and guests.
3) Have the spot you pick be picturesque, don’t rule out doing it outside.

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Time to water my blog

Thank god the blog is not like a plant I haven’t even been stopping in to water it.

The site has had some changes that have been taking up my time. You can now go to the links page and click on the clients link to view your online proofing and place orders. There is also an option to do this on the first mcnettimages.com page.

This system should work better rather than using a 3ed party host for the pictures. I can control more and provide better access with out worrying about who is viewing your information or if they are spamming you or selling your email address to nigerian scammers. This is hosted solely by me so the only down side is that when you apply for your password I have to do it by hand. I apologize in advance if it takes me a bit but in the end I think every one will be happy with the results. Like any technological improvements let me know if you notice anything buggy.

I well be posting more about some of the other exciting things that have been happening: New lighting techniques, a couple new ads have hit and Im going to start some contests/scavenger hunts so you guys can win some free stuff

MIke

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To retouch or not to retouch that is the question…




“When retouching a photography how much is too much?” Some people live their whole lives with what the general populous might deem unsightly blemishes. Either the person doesn’t get it removed for financial or moral reasons or they just don’t care. Regardless at the studio we retouch every photograph with two thoughts in mind 1) make the people look their best. 2) Keep the people looking like who they really are. If you have a mole that you have lived with your whole life it is part of who you are so it stays. 

The client that sparked this train of thought after seeing the proofs said “Wow, the pictures are great, but I should really get that removed,” referring to a mole that she has had for over 30 years. Here are these beautiful keepsakes of her wedding, one of the most joyful days of her life and all she can see is the mole that she has seen every day of her life when she looks in the mirror.
That got me to thinking about my function as a photographer. A purest captures the moment for what it is, nothing more nothing less. But what if what you are capturing is more than physical, what if it is the subjects vision of what is going on. 
A bride on her wedding day is at her apex, hair… the best, makeup… perfect, dress… flawless. While in reality that might not be the case in her mind, hopefully, she is perfection. I believe that this is what should be conveyed in the photography. 
But who decides what stays and what goes. What if Matthew Brady decided when taking Lincoln’s photograph that the mole has to go? Ultimately still it falls to the subject or person commissioning the images to be made. Communication is important, and tough. I don’t feel right asking a client “Hey do you want me to touch that out. ” What one person thinks is beautiful might not be the same as another. 

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